After the university entrance exam ends in, because take an exam,many examinee are met of pressure release thoroughly, life aim disappears suddenly and hang for long on the net to dismiss time. This kind of insanity after taking an examination of gets online to be able to be opposite not only the body and mind of examinee produces harm, and be immersed in network strong interest extremely easily. This also is a lot of parents when feeling in the end is painful, so how should summer vacation prevent the child to get online after all addiction? This problem interviewed the person that the author is taken president Mr Kong Lingzhong of net of network strong interest.
Aperture is born with first the proposal that the precautionary child with how effective summer vacation got online to give out to be as follows into addiction.
1, pay attention to dredge, if the parent prohibits blindly,the child gets online in the home, the child may go other places (like the Internet bar) , can appear instead more serious consequence.
Give up eating for fear of choking-refrain from doing sth necessary for fear of a slight risk is no good more, treat the child to get online, scanty be close friends than blocking up.
Actually, getting online is not evildoing completely, in the times of intellectual change quickly, letting the child get online cannot be taken. But the child is long indulge network world, can affect study and health of body and mind. The child with lesser age basically is to play game on the net; The child with older age basically is to chat, search interior associate.
This reminded the parent need leaves many bits of some of time, patience to accompany the child to play, accompany the child to chat, let them want to play, the wish in actual life that wants to say is able to come true. If can accomplish these really, child nature is met from to the network in indulging, regain consciousness come over.
2, become addiction to prevent the child to get online, should make certain limitation to child online time, lest the child indulges among them hard extricate oneself.
Additional, parents should be accomplished make the child safe get online.
For instance, in the computer installation filters program or " firewall " , with screen yellow website; Parents masters corresponding computer knowledge, the website that familiar child often goes and chatting room, so that can discover a problem in time, solve in time.
Among them still a bit want special attention, must put computer in public section namely for instance sitting room, do not put in the bedroom.
3, the parent answers to undertake to the child for chance character is taught in order to get online conciously.
Want to put an end to the infatuation network influence to the child at all, basically should rely on pair of child psychology quality breed, want to tell the child explicitly, believe he is the child with a strong psychokinesis, what won't make a network is servile, the act that can carry out by the plan to the child wants to be praised in time, avoid by all means because the child temporarily be infatuated with and the consciousness of comprehensive and negative child.
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