Small orchid the little girl that is a total love is low head, she feels she grows not quite beautifully all the time. One day, she bought a green bowknot to jewelry store, merchant praises ceaselessly she wears bowknot quite beautiful, small orchid although be not believed, but quite glad, can'ted help holding a head high, be eager to letting everybody look, went out to bump to was not cared about with the person.
Small orchid walk into a classroom, touch head on went up her teacher, "Small orchid, you hold a head high to come to true beauty! " teacher caressing ground pats the shoulder that pats her to say.
That day, she got a lot of people praise. The attention when attending class is centered exceptionally, the speech is vigorous, the maths that learns very hard at ordinary times repeatedly also feels much easier, the teacher asks her to solve equation to the front of blackboard, she unexpectedly with one action is successful, feel even the teacher accident. After the event, small orchid the contribution that wanting is bowknot certainly, can illuminate before past lens, there is bowknot at all on the head, it is certainly when giving jewelry store, touch with the person lost.
Joy makes a person self-confident, and self-confidence is a kind of beauty originally, let a person become lovely and happier, move toward a success ceaselessly thereby.
A research that publishs recently makes clear as a result, be not successful recipe conscientiously, happy ability is the path of the success. Psychologist people say, the people that carries happy mental state more be happy to try new thing and challenge ego, acquire an enterprise more easily successful, establish good human relationship and the physique that keeps healthy.
Study the result makes clear, joy is the crucial factor that makes people generation happy. In addition, happy mood still can affect another person. If the person of an organization feels generally happy, this organization forms the ethos of courteous and self-effacing, mutual help more easily, happy mood helps people more easily realize his desire.
Joy is the individual's pursuit not just, the person that has joy succeeds more easily also. And happy disposition also can be developed,
Be in especially childhood times.
The world makes the way of parents that hopes his child enters a success in the future, so be about to notice to develop the child's lively and lovely happy disposition as a child.
1. Give the child the freedom of the choice
Childhood is the happiest period in lifetime. But a lot of children do not have this kind of feeling however, because they are right,all things were not done advocate portion, wear what dress for instance, it when is hairdo, OK to what leave what does amuse oneself, dinner eat to be decided by adult etc. They do not think like the adult in that way very happy. Of course, parents had be toed do on most thing advocate, but some things might as well let him child decide. The child that lets two years old for example chooses him to love eating cucumber when dinner, is not to force him to eat carrot, the child that perhaps lets 6 years old chooses him to like the TV program that see, the child that lets 8 years old makes friend freely amuse oneself. Although discipline of small off year, the child also can know to choose to be able to make his happy.
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