In a lot of families every time child err finishs sth, the parent often does not give the child the chance of averment, more do not wish to listen attentively to the child recount.
Be in long-term children, although the ability of make a clear distinction between right and wrong is not very strong, but also have their unique thinking kind. They every do a thing, have oneself reason. Accordingly, when child happening problem, the parent should come down calmly, respect the child's independent character sanctity, give the child recounted right, understand their thought intention from inside recount, next make the best use of the circumstances accurate pulse, help child increases the capacity that understands a problem.
However, some parents did not realize the value that listens attentively to the child to recount however. Once the child has a problem, always go with adult thinking means everything what judge child place does, do not give the child explanatory chance. Because the child loses talking right or his word to cannot get parental accredit, be forced to hide grievance and dissatisfaction in the bottom of the heart. What right now the parent loses is the opportunity that understands child thought activity deep not only, can make more child generation and parental opposed psychology.
Listen attentively to the child recount, the right that respects child conversation adequately is art of a kind of family education. Parents should realise the education to the child should not be one-way, and should be interactive, respect the child only, the child just meets trustful parents, be willing to speak oneself open-armed word. Pour out to be able to allow the mental state that the child jumps out to depress at this point more to parents, overcome self-abased feeling, enhance self-confident heart.
Censure blindly and preach crudely, can not solve the knot disease of the problem truly. Listen attentively to the child recount, the heart door leaf of open child. Be also a very wonderful thing?
