The friend consults to me: "My daughter of 3 years old likes to run to run in drug-store, want sugar to me, should chewing gum, want cup cake of what. If I reject her, she can erupt bilious, make me embarrassed. I do not want to punish her when the person is much. Can how should I do? Can how should I do??
Really, some children know a few circumstances, won't punish him in communal circumstance parents especially, can become very difficult tangle and bold revolt.
Have a doctor friend, ever related a such stories to me. A little boy of 10 years old sees a doctor to his clinic, whenever that boy comes clinic, his colleague is met very nervous, very panicky -- because that is a child that tangles piquant and very hard really, come every time clinic, he is not to catch appliance, grab archives file and phone namely. His helpless mother can be in only apologize shyly repeatedly aside.
Once, that boy had tooth of eat by moth, must reach an old dentist there processing. Allegedly that dentist copes with a child to have very much. Bade when dentist when sitting to the chair to go up, then little boy says however " don't imagine that is possible " ! Dentist emphasizes again, I want you to climb that piece of chair, that is the thing that you must do! But the child is staring at adversary, consider a little while hind say: "If you are extortionary,I mount that piece of chair, I take off all dresses on the body. I take off all dresses on the body..
At this moment, dentist laugh: "Should take off you! "Should take off you!!
The boy takes off shirt and footgear none hesitantly, provoke the ground to look at dentist next. Dentist still says calmly: "Good, sit to the chair now. " that boy is stupefied, say excitedly: "It is clear that a moment ago you did not listen, if you want me to sit that piece of chair, I am about to take off ' all ' the dress. " dentist still does not move acoustical ground to say: "The child, you are taken off. You are taken off..
The boy's tear came with respect to fast drop out, but he still hold back wears to enrage, continue his trousers and briefs, naked ground stands before dentist finally. "Now, go to the chair. " dentist or that word. Unexpectedly, the boy did not have erratic movement again that day, whole cure process very cooperate. After tooth of eat by moth has filled, he comes down amenably from the chair, so good that make a person fab. After a few days, the boy's mother finds dentist, hair thank from ground of the bottom of one's heart: "Doctor, do you know? My son browbeats with disrobe me already several years. You are the first expose the person of this piece of masque, thank you really, hit since that day, he is much franker. He is much franker..
This is typical " strange disposition child is asked for integratedly " , be aimed at the child's willfully make a trouble, best method despises his monkey business namely, let him strip off the dress.
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