Social phobia (social phobia), also known as social anxiety disorder (social anxiety), to see people phobia is a phobia of the most common, accounting for about half of phobia patients. Social phobia is a kind of any social or public feel strong psychological fear or anxiety mental illness. For patients in front of strangers or others may be carefully observed social or performance situations, there is a significant and persistent fear, afraid of his own behavior or performance will cause tension in humiliation or embarrassment. Some patients participating in meetings, phone calls to the store, or ask the authorities are very difficult.
Not talking to strangers, not eye contact with others, can not work under the watchful eye of others, in a public restroom is a very daunting task ... ... technician Xiao Zhao's "inward" seems a bit too far. In fact, this is not a simple personality problems, but a real disorder - social phobia. What is so "shy"? "Chinese Mental Health Journal" in a research study, there was a severe lack of warmth and understanding father, the most important factor leading to one of social phobia.
In this regard, the Beijing Military Region based youth development research center Professor Tao Ran told the "Life Times" reporter, "My father's psychological violence" is indeed one of the main causes of fear the child. "This kind of violence that the children vent negative emotions, and gross interference in the free development of the child mind." Ran said, the healthy growth of children need five spiritual freedom: to see, hear, feel, fantasy and emotional release, but many of my father likes to use their own judge to replace the children's judge, do not give children the freedom to think and decide, do not allow children to express natural emotions such as fear of seeing a caterpillar, beaten cry and so on. "Is too strict need to over the child's psychological defense system started, they feel that they always make mistakes, as well as others, and slowly becomes inferior, afraid to try, and then from the social life, the formation of social phobia." Tao Ran said.
"If freedom were given to children, it not difficult to establish the credibility of the father?" Ran said this, "In fact, not from the prestige of strict discipline. In the U.S., as long as it does not affect the physical health, his father would encourage children to Listen, see, to feel, and then from the perspective of an adult to help children understand correctly. This will not only help create a good parent-child relationship, more found the child's talent to help them grow.
