Foreign quality teachs an a bit
American family education is be full of pioneering spirit in order to rear the child, can become the factitious jumping-off place of an earn one's own living. Even if rich parents, also pay attention to the ability that seeks means of livilihood oneself to the child to teach very, and the education of moral view and viewpoint of value. A few cities establish American south the ability that the middle school lives to foster a student to get used to a society independently, return special provision: The student must not take a single cent or penny, fend independently a week just allows graduation. The catchword of American pupil is: "Want to spend money, oneself are earned! " whether be full of in the home without giving thought to, the court that the child has to give father and mother later in 12 years old cuts grass, send to others anounce exchange pin money. A few families still ask the child goes out when miscellaneous labour, if summer pushs mower, autumn for the person,sweep deciduous leaf, winter to help a family shovel snow to wait. American parents often say, do not be afraid of the child to have a rough time, want advantageous Yu Pei to raise the capacity that the child fends only, make they take again much pain worth while also. If parents is doting the child, this may be the worst thing that does in his lifetime.
Japan: While a lot of parents are teaching the child to learn a homework, ask they use after school time to do the chore of those in one's power, attend labor to earn money to the outside. In Japanese undergraduate, of part-work and part-study system very general, they rely on in restaurant to carry tray, wash a bowl, in shop sell goods, become tutor, accompany protect an old person to wait, earn oneself tuition. It is when the child is very small, parents are about to engraft to them a kind of thought: "Do not give others incommode " family person goes out travel, no matter how small child, want to carry a satchel on the back without an other place. Parents says: "This is the thing of themselves, should oneself will carry on the back. Should oneself will carry on the back..
Germany: The educational idea that Germany always proposes is, rear the child " responsibility heart, assiduous, just, reliable, be happy to help person, style of work custom of decent, behavior " . Accordingly, parents never monopolize the issue that replaces the child. For example, when one one full year of life controls the child, parents encourages themselves to holding feeder in both hands to drink milk. Grow as child age and ability, guide them to accomplish worse thing. Not only the sense of responsibility that parents pay attention to education child and self-confident heart, law also has such requirement Germany law to set, the child arrived 14 years old to be about to have in the home assume a few chore, want to wait for family person shoeshine for instance.
Let the child grow like wild flower
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