Guide the child to produce resonance to the affection of other
The child had certain affection to identify ability, had not had on behalf of them move affection ability. Should make the child learns to move affection, still must make they produce resonance to the affection of other, this is to foster the child to move affection the important segment of ability. Normally, the parent can use the affection resonance that evokes the child with below two kinds of methods.
(1) mood recall. Mood recall is the mood experience that in arousing child past life to experience through the language, experiences personally, cause them to be opposite at that time of the scene associate, strengthen the connection between mood experience and specific scene, make the child produces resonance thereby. Be like, see neighbour home exceed exceed a cold to have a fever, father mother can guide the child: "Oh, super- super- had a fever, temperature is very high. I think, you also catch a cold a few days ago, gave out heat, seem to feel particularly afflictive, very uncomfortable? " through guiding child mood recall, make they can imagine an others the feeling at that time.
(2) affection conversion. Affection conversion is through offerring a series of by reach far social scene nearly (like the family, parents, old person, the) such as neighbour, let the child undertake analytic discussion and part are acted, make they can change the position of other thereby, go experiencing different mood reacts, make the child enter affection resonance state with some kind of part. Be like " if you are a great grandfather, there are a lot of inconveniences in the life, how is your mood met? " " if your eye was lost sight of, you can feel in the life have what inconvenience, what does the meeting in your heart have to experience? " " one day, you play in the park when, see suddenly have a little little brother not careful trip is in puddle, if you are that little little brother, be special in your heart want others to you can help you? Be special in your heart want others to you can help you??
Pass mood recall and affection conversion, can make the child moves experience of the mood in the past, affection in corresponding scene, apposition body among them, can be considerate is other consider, experience other the mood reaction at that time, produce resonance thereby.
Anyhow, want the child is rich sympathize with a heart and be happy to help a person, the parent answers above all from move affection proceed with, let the child learn to move affection, this is child society care, have love and the base that sympathize with a heart.
