Son 11 months. He is in the home very lively, can go out to stretching tight little face, knitting brows, laugh inaccessibly. Although at ordinary times we often also take him to go in the village amuse oneself, but others touchs him to shrink with respect to draw back one's hand shoulder, all over intense pattern, familiar child stretchs his hand feel him also such. I and my sweetheart not quite be good at association, and my actuating pressure is very great, pregnancy sentiment is intense, can you be these reasons affected the child? How should be I done now
The child's expression rejects to contact a likelihood to have such a few reasons: Stranger angst is heavier, expression is pair of stranger very fear, familiar rise slower; Belong to sensitive constitution, expression is opposite feeling is very sensitive, do not like to be felt; Also may be the hand when the child feels him is weighed quite, often be fond of his lane, so he fears; Parents does not like truck, the chance that because this gives the child to offer,interacts with the person is less also, socialization progress of the child is slower. The pregnancy that says as to you has intense sentiment, do not know duration how long? If last 56 months above. May make fetal be affected certainly. Because, pregnancy if spirit is depressive, can make sympathetic system produces change, make hematic flow of the uterus decreases, perhaps make adrenalin happening changes, affect thereby fetal. If short-term sentiment is intense, won't have what effect.
Be aimed at the child's current condition, suggest you do so:
Want to treat human association of the child with common heart. Your child is small still now, a lot of behavior still do not finalize the design, leave final conclusion not prematurely to the child, say he has what association problem.
Respect sensitive constitution of the child. He is felt in others or child. Hold him in the arms, when his insecurity shrinks back, you need not worry too, do not consider this kind of case too serious. As the child's development, the amplification of association limits, he can suit gradually and change.
Although he is returned now not quite suit and child association is too close, but the chance that you give him to be close to others and child even, it is OK also to even if be remote,be contacted, make he forms the consciousness that shares truck gradually.
