Use limited time. Can sending the child to look for some of topic and him to chat; Eat dinner to be able to do handiwork together with him; Face some of story is told to him before sleeping. Holiday should first consideration accompanies child activity, next him reconditioning general affairs. If the parent insists to abide by the regulation that he places, so the child can make allowances for you, patient ground awaits you and him to communicate.
Harmonious communication atmosphere. Harmonious atmosphere is the best additive that communicates with the child forever, want absorption the opinion that hears them and view, want to be able to understand their affection and requirement, have a meal together, hear a concert together, visit an exhibition together, it is the optimal opportunity that be communicated with the child and communicates.
Parallel dialog is artistic. When clever parent and child talk, always facing, however side-by-side in the company of goes, forward a direction. Mention a word to come so, appear relaxed and natural, have the milk of human kindness very much, the child is willing to listen, also be happy to accept.
Undeserved judgment is become advisory. The child often is shown to parental admonish go against turn over psychology, they always feel they had not needed adult surelysubject sb to discipline, right now child needs an adviser most, a give advice, help them give an idea, think way, teach them correct processing technique, the wisdom that coachs they learn to rely on their casts off predicament, make right choice.
Give child stationary point independent space. The parent should give child stationary point independent space, let them have the mental state of good health, be in only at this moment, he just can draw out one's innermost thoughts and feelings to you. (Qin Jie)
Origin: Network of state of Chinese another name for Jiangxi Province, the daily austral another name for Jiangxi Province
