One, be praised overly or criticism is praised appropriately be helpful for the child establishing self-confident heart, but some parents always keep praising the child overly, the result is just the opposite to what one wished however, such child often lacks self-awareness, they do a bit bagatelle to hope to get praising, do not do otherwise. Beyond the mark criticism also can hurt the child's proper pride, it the parent should point out where the fault is only is OK that the parent should point out where the fault is only, can help them draw a lesson so.
2, experience of lack of beyond the mark and democratic cheeper and eye, need parents is directive, beyond the mark to its democracy, can mother the child, become do as one wants. Of course, when after the child is a few growner can Xiao Zhi in order to manage, give them more options. 3, get angry to the child parents to child be furious can shake lives the child, but authority was reduced however; Parents should get angry less before the child. If be not controlled, can calm first, come back to point out their mistake gravely to the child again next, such effects are better.
4, always come according to invariable means certainly child always lets the child punish a station in the corner is to won't much your work is used. If the child made a mistake, can limit his certain activity according to the child's age and hobby, if watch TV, play game machine or attend the activity outdoor to wait. Want ignore only sometimes his behavior, he is met waiver.
5, if if the child is without impression to his wrong action,punishing the child, he won't remember correct. The child made a mistake really, penalty is indispensable. Penalty has a lot of methods, if can let him do chore, clean sanitation to wait. The penalty here is not to point to dozen of child, what the child that often takes a beating gets is scared, is not self-restrained.
6, too gentle to speaking in the child of err thing sometimes, parents should adopt coercive measures, let the child know archness to should have limit, any moment cannot have beyond the mark action, check at the beginning in bad behavior him, explain again next why.
7, abuse is rewarded " if you are gone to no longer,water is sprinkled on the ground, had eaten a meal I eat ice-cream to you " . This kind of method can indulgent he next time recommit, the method that uses award checks wrong action of the child is bribery child actually. Be sure to keep in mind, cannot abuse this kind of award.
8, quarrel before the child because parents teachs the method is abhorrent and public squabble, can make the child feels insecure and be at a loss, because the child often can imitate parents. Reason is before the child, parents had better keep consistent. If have different opinion, want escape child to undertake discussion, do not let him feel only a person said to calculate, lest one party is not when field, other one party is not effective.
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