Chinese network news (Liu Gaohuai of reporter Xiang Jie's trainee) yesterday afternoon 2 when to 4 when, teach division courtyard couplet to do by morning paper and city " parent hot line " the 75th period enlightened, this period value defends expert Han Xiuzhen " how to help the child cast off the worry that make friend " this one theme and a few readers have hot line communication.
Mr. Han Xiuzhen points out, the child makes friend, the parent does not cross much interference, involve good morality character can. Guide the child with sincere need a person, go maintaining friendship with mutual respect, mutual understanding.
■ nobody plays how to do with the son
A mom: The elementary school on the son 4 grade, friend of it doesn't matter, look for a person actively to play rarely. Excuse me this so do?
Han Xiuzhen: The parent should encourage the child first bold make friend. Next, want to create an opportunity for the child more, the friend that invites the child for instance comes play in the home, in the process that employ the parent wants as far as possible evasive, let him child sing leading role. If the parent's guidance and interference are overmuch, can let the child be in passivity.
■ the son does not have person of be congenial to painstakingly
A mom: The son is read first 2, like to play basketball usually, do make invention small innovation. The classmate on the class likes to say the star talks about a star, he feels very empty Miao, synthesize a group with classmate be in harmony hard. Look for the friend that is less than interest agree with each other, often think the classmate that looks for elementary school plays.
Han Xiuzhen: The child that likes science and creation now is not much, this kind of interest is good, but in also letting the child be encircled in intercourse, appear isolated. Suggest to begin from the following respects: Enter the race of science and technology in the area, the friend that has common interest is found on competition ground; Often examine a few science and technology kind website or forum of science and technology, thereon searchs bosom friend to wait a moment.
The expert raises action high school student to make friend 5 attentions
How is middle and primary school born to get along with other harmony? Mr. Han Xiuzhen suggests teenage friend wants to notice the following 5 respects:
■ do not be a center with ego everywhere
The child that has association obstacle loves to be a center with ego, follow is worn in family belongs " small emperor " , " small princess " habit, the person all round the hope is letting him. Means of this kind of association is brought about the most easily isolated.
■ want friendship to also want to have a principle
Maintain friendship, do not be equal to indulge the other side. Must hold to a principle, offer other open-armed criticism and proposal, build true each other to help coadjutant harmonious and human concern.
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