Gold signs up for dispatch (reporter Zhoukena) yesterday, our psychology hot line invited a nation advisory division of 2 class psychology Mr. Wu Junxiao, talk about the child's topic with readers. During the hot line is enlightened, the phone rings ceaseless all the time, mr. Wu altogether received 20 telephone calls, problem one after another of the parent, among them the before taking an examination of angst that the hottest is the child and parentage problem.
Typical case one child is fast in took an examination of, what should I notice
The parent: The child wants in took an examination of, I begin to notice his nutrition now, cook a few food more for him everyday, make him much take a place, but he does not listen.
Psychological teacher suggests: The parent pays close attention to an exam too much, also can cause the anxiety of the child before taking an examination of, actually parent oneself also is in condition of a kind of angst. Because of in wanting, took an examination of, child itself is very nervous also, the parent adds his suspense to his body again, can cause him more be agitated. The parent should follow same at ordinary times, build a comfortable learning environment to him.
Typical case 2 daughters get online coxcombry, how should I do
The parent: My daughter reads second year in high school now, all day long gets online now, still begin coxcombry, I suspect she talks about love, tan Lian loves during high school, I am absolutely unallowed. How should I handle me to follow the child's concern?
Psychology refers division proposal: The girl is in adolescence, parents has not realized to the change of child adolescence, parents thinks child addle, think clever before, obedient child gives search, produced a kind of such clash then. The child that is in adolescence is coxcombry very normal, the parent should not guess, censure the child, should talk with the child with the friend's attitude, she can be willing to open her mind to you.
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